Client Transformations

“I came to Legan at a time when I was in a place of pretty deep despair. I was coming off another “failed” relationship—one that had been on and off for almost six years—after I had already been through two divorces. I remember thinking, “Okay, I can’t keep pointing fingers or blaming other people for where I am in my life.” I was in a place I didn’t want to be again, and I knew something had to change. I was lucky enough to connect with Legan, and that connection turned out to be exactly what I needed. I knew deep down it was time to take a hard look at myself and understand what it was about me that kept drawing these same patterns into my life.

Frankly, before I met Legan, emotions and feelings were almost a foreign language to me. Listening to my body and understanding where my triggers came from—none of that was second nature. It took time to learn how to tune in and connect with myself, because that’s not something I was ever taught. My parents grew up in a time when you just pulled your bootstraps up and carried on. You didn’t talk about how you felt—let alone feel how you felt. So beginning this work with her really was like learning a whole new language. A language of presence, self-trust, and true connection to myself.

I still remember one of the first things she said to me: “Ruminating is avoiding your feelings.” And honestly, I had no idea what she meant at the time. I couldn’t even wrap my head around it. But now? It’s so clear. I see how I used to stay stuck in my head, looping through thoughts, instead of actually sitting with what I was feeling. She helped me shift that—and that shift alone changed everything.

Working with Legan has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life. It’s honestly hard to put into words just how deeply she’s supported me, because what we did together wasn’t surface-level—it was soul-level. She helped me peel back layers I didn’t even know I was carrying. She helped me see parts of myself that I had been suppressing for years—parts I didn’t want to feel or face. And when those parts came to the surface, she guided me with so much understanding and care. She helped me see why I had been hiding them and how to finally release them—so they didn’t have to keep imprisoning me or holding me back.

When shame came up—and I realized I had been carrying it nearly my entire life—she helped me break it wide open and let it go. She even helped me heal my relationship with my deceased father, who had been emotionally unavailable for most of my life. That healing has been profound. I now see him, and our relationship, in a completely new light—one that feels whole, beautiful, and filled with a sense of peace I never thought possible.

Since working with Legan, I’ve experienced changes that feel almost impossible to quantify—but I can say this: I’m not the same person I was when I started. I’ve learned how to honor my emotions instead of bypassing them or pretending I’m fine when I’m not. I’ve become more vulnerable, more grounded, and more able to stay with myself in hard moments rather than reaching outside for validation or escape or staying in my head and ruminating. 

I’ve let go of relationships and patterns that weren’t serving me—some of which I had been holding onto for years. I’ve developed a much deeper sense of self-worth that isn’t based on achievement or who’s showing up for me, but on who I know I am. I’ve learned how to set boundaries without guilt, how to listen to my body and trust what it’s telling me—and maybe most importantly, how to trust myself. There’s a softness in me now, but also a quiet strength. And that’s new.

If you’re thinking about working with Legan, I can’t recommend her enough. She has this way of meeting you exactly where you are and walking alongside you as you figure things out—without judgment, without pressure, just with so much compassion and wisdom. This work isn’t always easy, but it’s powerful. And for me, it’s been life-changing in ways I’m still discovering, and I’m becoming who I truly am, on a soul level. 

And here’s my advice—if you want to work with Legan, you have to be willing to look at yourself honestly and openly. You have to be vulnerable with yourself if you want to make real progress. But let me tell you—if you stick with it, if you get real with yourself, the progress you’ll make will be profound.”

“I spent years struggling with anxiety and self-worth, really wanting a relationship and hoping it would "fix" me. When I started coaching with Legan, I was completely out of touch with my emotions, despite years of therapy, self-help books, and podcasts.

I found Legan through group coaching and loved that she asked questions where I truly felt seen and understood. She has a gift of asking questions that go a few layers deeper and help you discover things about yourself that you weren't aware of. It's clear how much she cares about her clients, and she helps you understand how to actually integrate these insights into your life.

I went from living in constant anxiety and hoping for a relationship, to learning how to truly feel my emotions and communicate authentically, to being in a loving relationship where I was open and authentic. Now I'm single again, yet I'm happiest I've ever been because I've learned how to give myself the love I was always hoping to get from someone else.

I'm living with so much more freedom, excitement, and joy, and don't know how long it would have taken me to do this on my own. I'm beyond grateful for Legan helping me reach this point of self-acceptance and self-love that's improved every area of my life!”

“When I found Legan, I was in a very painful and attached relationship with what felt like no way out. I had a fear of leaving because I believed that it was all that I deserved. I also had a fear of staying and settling. I was an out-of-control yo-yo.

From the first time I talked with Legan, there was an instant connection. Throughout our time together, I never felt judged or uncomfortable. She helped me see how I was creating the problems that I was trying to avoid. She helped me work through my fears and beliefs that there was no one else out there for me. She helped me grow my value, worth, and to step out of my comfort zone.

Legan helped me realize that I was not the communicator I thought I was. Instead, I was the control freak I thought I wasn’t. Through all of this, I was able to leave my attached relationship for good. Although extremely painful, it was truly a monumental growing experience.

I’m now happy to say that I’m in a healthy relationship where I speak my feelings and my truths every day. I have less fear around scarcity and I know that no matter what happens, I trust myself and I will be okay.

Legan has also helped me with fears around work, feeling stupid, with body shaming and much more. I don’t think I will ever be able to put down on paper what she has done for me. All I can say is that I’m eternally grateful.”

“Working with Legan through one-on-one coaching has completely transformed my life for the better. I decided to try coaching, so I could have some direct help talking through my issues. I cannot recommend coaching enough. Listening to podcasts, reading books, etc, those things are all great, but I would be nowhere I am today without Legan’s help.

When I started, I was a totally different person than I am now. I had been through a miscarriage and a painful breakup with my long-term partner, then fresh out of a short-term toxic relationship. I was addicted to chemistry, and completely numb to my own feelings, struggling with anxiety and addiction issues.

Legan helped me work through these issues one by one, digging into things to get to the cause. She gave me tools and insights that worked effectively that I am able to take with me post-coaching. Today, I am in a happy and healthy relationship with a loving partner. The best part is that those awful anxiety feelings are a thing of the past, and if they resurface I know how to deal with them.

I am forever grateful to Legan for her compassionate and positive guidance. I only wish I would have found this sooner.”

“After a failed marriage and engagement, I never thought it would be possible to have a healthy  sustaining relationship with anyone. That is until I started working with Legan. She has helped me learn and discover my inner self. To truly honor my feelings and communicate openly with my partner.  Thanks to her coaching, I am for the first time in my life in a happy and healthy relationship.”